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Started by DAWUD at 05-07-2007 1:58 PM. Topic has 1 replies.

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   05-07-2007, 1:58 PM
DAWUD is not online. Last active: 9/25/2007 11:45:42 PM DAWUD

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Star [*] the KING, the SERVANT and the MINISTER
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WANT TO KNOW HOW TO RAISE CHILDREN?

HERE IS A HADITH WHICH DEFINES THE GUIDLINES:

 

From age 1-7 treat the child as a king. - you should listen to them

From age 7-14 treat then as a servant - they should listen to you

From age 14-21 they are like a minister - they are not the president, but they have some independence, some rules and they have a mutual respect . and the president often consults with them.

 

 


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   05-12-2007, 1:17 PM
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Yes [Y] Re: the KING, the SERVANT and the MINISTER
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interesting.

i can see the philosophy and wisdom in that. at least some of it.

the first seven years u show them how to act, by doing it urself.

then the next seven years it's the child's turn to act by what he or she has learned.

and finally as they progress then they are more accountable and take on more responsibility


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